Summary

This video discusses the importance of helping students develop a biblical view of sexuality. An experienced youth minister, Jared Berry shares his insights on this topic. He emphasizes that sexuality is deeply connected to spirituality and finding one's identity rather than just a physical act. Jared suggests that we are all broken and use sexuality to find identity, which is sinful. The gospel is the solution to restore a proper understanding of sexuality. He provides practical tips for youth leaders to converse openly with students about this sensitive topic.

Main Points

Sex is Never About Sex

The world views sex as purely biological or emotional, but the biblical understanding is that sexuality is deeply connected to spirituality and worship. In the Old Testament, sexual practices were often linked to the spiritual worship of false gods.

We’re All Broken

The church, at times, has approached sexuality in a judgmental way, portraying leaders as having achieved purity. However, we are all broken and use sexuality to find identity, which is sinful, regardless of our marital status or sexual orientation.

The Gospel Restores Sexuality

The gospel is the solution to restore a proper understanding of sexuality. It repositions sexuality as important but not the ultimate source of identity. The gospel makes sexuality more important than the world's view but also less important as an identity.

Practical Tips for Youth Leaders

Have open and relational conversations with students about sexuality. Use a tone of humility, acknowledging that all are broken, and avoid a judgmental or superior attitude. Building relationships and trust with students is crucial for these difficult conversations.

Action Items

• Understand that sexuality is deeply connected to spirituality and finding one's identity rather than just a physical act.

• Recognize that we are all broken and use sexuality to find identity, which is sinful, regardless of our marital status or sexual orientation.

• Rely on the gospel of Jesus Christ as the solution to restore a proper understanding of sexuality.

• Communicate with students about sexuality in a relational and non- judgmental way, acknowledging that all are broken and in need of the gospel.

• Build relationships and trust with students for open and effective conversations about this sensitive topic.